You really want to know how to get a girl's number? To start, let's clear your mind of all the cheesy ways you have seen guys behave in person, in the movies, or even from a fantasy in your mind regarding how you would ask for her phone number. To a girl, a phone number is often regarded as a private matter and getting that number means she trusts you and likes you enough to give it. You want to respect that, even though to you it is not a big deal since it is just a phone number.
But it's not always easy to get a woman's phone number. So how do you do it?It's not as risky as asking for her address, but most women are still pretty protective of their phone numbers! Getting her interested in you is important and so is getting her to trust you're not a stalker/serial killer. But there are other ways to step-up your chances of getting her number which I will show you below.Don't just be another guy hitting on her.Don't say or do the expected. A woman is used to being approached by guys, especially if she's attractive. You don't want to be "just another guy". Avoid pick up lines and boring questions like what she does for a living.
The easiest way to do this is just to end by STARTING to walk away."Hey, it was cool talking to you..."Then you START to turn away. This leads us to the next step.How to get a girls number - Step 2) Make it attractive for her.Just after you start to turn away, you turn BACK to her and say: "You know what? You seem pretty fun. We might want to re-connect sometime."What that technique of turning away then back does is establish that what I'm suggesting is almost an afterthought, meaning low-key. Laid back. No pressure.It also establishes that she impressed you. "You seem pretty fun!" Which puts YOU in the control seat right from the start.
When you are having a conversation with this girl, by all means give her you're full attention, engage her, spark her interest, but don't stay too long. When the conversation is still going well say something like "It's been great chatting but I better get back to my friends." But as your walking away turn back as if it's an afterthought, and say something like "Hey, do you have email?" This works like a charm, believe me! You could also ask for her email. It's not her phone phone number but you may find she offers this instead. You could also just ask if she's OK Facebook... who isn't these days?Ending the conversation while it's still engaging will do two things: raise your status in her mind and give you an excuse to catch up another time.
That's totally weak. You must simply TELL her what you want."Give me your phone number - so we can continue this conversation sometime." Pull out your cell phone and just wait for her to give it to you.It's that simple. And by telling her why, you've even removed any possible questions she might have had in her head about why.Remember that women want you to be confident enough for BOTH you and her. She's looking to YOU to determine how she should feel about the interaction. Your confidence will spill over to her - letting her know that she can feel safe with you, and you're going to be the MAN - the one with the initiative to fulfill all those romantic fantasies of hers.
To lead and open up the conversation and explore for common interests, practice active listening. Run with the thread of conversation to expand on it after repeating what you hear from her. For instance, she said, "I don't really go out much, my friends begged me to come with them." Your response is, "I know how that feels, and like you, bars are not really in my top 10 of best places to be in. Me and my friends mostly hang out and have more fun at private house parties. It allows us to catch up better. What do you and your friends do most?" Then give her some space. You have just led her to continue the conversation and could let you know more about her interests.
Get her interested in you- She would never give you her phone number unless she is totally interested in you and your personality. So the very first step towards getting her phone number is to get her interested in you. There are several ways to get girls interested in you but the best one is the cheeky way of approaching them. Try to be a cheeky flirt and approach them as if they need you. Make them feel a bit inferior and you would generate instant attention there and then.
Asking for the number. The final say comes when you need to ask for the number. However, this is a non issue because of the work you've done ahead of time in building rapport. You shouldn't be concerned, it will be natural. Whenever you find something you both are interested in, simply add "we should try that together some time..." Usually she will say it for you. From there, you can take a natural step to request for her number. Just add "let's trade cell phones and I'll call you to set it up.... here, pen your name and number in." and give her your phone.
This is usually done by clicking on the menu and pressing "clear contacts". Just be sure you don't delete all her contacts. As you hand the phone back you can say the following prize line with a smile "I just swopped number with you...Just to save you the awkwardness of having to ask me for my number before I leave". You should go for the phone number over her email address every time. However, you can easily get both if you approach it in the right manner. A Person will naturally give their email out to somebody far more easily than their phone number as it is less personal. In fact, if you have any connection with this person at all, it's likely that they will give you their email. This works especially well in coffee shops or in quiet bars. It also works better if you have a pen and paper with you. After you have spoken to her for a short while, you can take your leave but before you go, simply say "Do you have an email?"
This is a very basic question and will start to build a yes ladder. She will answer yes and you then hand her the pen and paper and tell her to write it down. You treat her yes as confirmation that she wants to give you her email. This is also an attraction test and the more she invests in you, the more she will be willing to invest in the future. As she is writing down her email address, you simply say, ""Write down your number too!".In the example above, you have broken down the giving of the number into two steps, which dramatically improves the chances. The strength of this method is that you are asking them to write their phone number down as they are writing down their email and, in doing so; you have built a very powerful compliance momentum.By asking for her email, you have given her a very small attraction test and if you have any value built at all, she will comply with you. It's very low risk and most people give out an email address without thinking about it. Asking for the phone number is much more personal, but by asking for it while they are writing down their email, your chances of success will skyrocket. Try it and you will realise how powerful this is!
But it's not always easy to get a woman's phone number. So how do you do it?It's not as risky as asking for her address, but most women are still pretty protective of their phone numbers! Getting her interested in you is important and so is getting her to trust you're not a stalker/serial killer. But there are other ways to step-up your chances of getting her number which I will show you below.Don't just be another guy hitting on her.Don't say or do the expected. A woman is used to being approached by guys, especially if she's attractive. You don't want to be "just another guy". Avoid pick up lines and boring questions like what she does for a living.
The easiest way to do this is just to end by STARTING to walk away."Hey, it was cool talking to you..."Then you START to turn away. This leads us to the next step.How to get a girls number - Step 2) Make it attractive for her.Just after you start to turn away, you turn BACK to her and say: "You know what? You seem pretty fun. We might want to re-connect sometime."What that technique of turning away then back does is establish that what I'm suggesting is almost an afterthought, meaning low-key. Laid back. No pressure.It also establishes that she impressed you. "You seem pretty fun!" Which puts YOU in the control seat right from the start.
When you are having a conversation with this girl, by all means give her you're full attention, engage her, spark her interest, but don't stay too long. When the conversation is still going well say something like "It's been great chatting but I better get back to my friends." But as your walking away turn back as if it's an afterthought, and say something like "Hey, do you have email?" This works like a charm, believe me! You could also ask for her email. It's not her phone phone number but you may find she offers this instead. You could also just ask if she's OK Facebook... who isn't these days?Ending the conversation while it's still engaging will do two things: raise your status in her mind and give you an excuse to catch up another time.
That's totally weak. You must simply TELL her what you want."Give me your phone number - so we can continue this conversation sometime." Pull out your cell phone and just wait for her to give it to you.It's that simple. And by telling her why, you've even removed any possible questions she might have had in her head about why.Remember that women want you to be confident enough for BOTH you and her. She's looking to YOU to determine how she should feel about the interaction. Your confidence will spill over to her - letting her know that she can feel safe with you, and you're going to be the MAN - the one with the initiative to fulfill all those romantic fantasies of hers.
To lead and open up the conversation and explore for common interests, practice active listening. Run with the thread of conversation to expand on it after repeating what you hear from her. For instance, she said, "I don't really go out much, my friends begged me to come with them." Your response is, "I know how that feels, and like you, bars are not really in my top 10 of best places to be in. Me and my friends mostly hang out and have more fun at private house parties. It allows us to catch up better. What do you and your friends do most?" Then give her some space. You have just led her to continue the conversation and could let you know more about her interests.
Get her interested in you- She would never give you her phone number unless she is totally interested in you and your personality. So the very first step towards getting her phone number is to get her interested in you. There are several ways to get girls interested in you but the best one is the cheeky way of approaching them. Try to be a cheeky flirt and approach them as if they need you. Make them feel a bit inferior and you would generate instant attention there and then.
Asking for the number. The final say comes when you need to ask for the number. However, this is a non issue because of the work you've done ahead of time in building rapport. You shouldn't be concerned, it will be natural. Whenever you find something you both are interested in, simply add "we should try that together some time..." Usually she will say it for you. From there, you can take a natural step to request for her number. Just add "let's trade cell phones and I'll call you to set it up.... here, pen your name and number in." and give her your phone.
This is usually done by clicking on the menu and pressing "clear contacts". Just be sure you don't delete all her contacts. As you hand the phone back you can say the following prize line with a smile "I just swopped number with you...Just to save you the awkwardness of having to ask me for my number before I leave". You should go for the phone number over her email address every time. However, you can easily get both if you approach it in the right manner. A Person will naturally give their email out to somebody far more easily than their phone number as it is less personal. In fact, if you have any connection with this person at all, it's likely that they will give you their email. This works especially well in coffee shops or in quiet bars. It also works better if you have a pen and paper with you. After you have spoken to her for a short while, you can take your leave but before you go, simply say "Do you have an email?"
This is a very basic question and will start to build a yes ladder. She will answer yes and you then hand her the pen and paper and tell her to write it down. You treat her yes as confirmation that she wants to give you her email. This is also an attraction test and the more she invests in you, the more she will be willing to invest in the future. As she is writing down her email address, you simply say, ""Write down your number too!".In the example above, you have broken down the giving of the number into two steps, which dramatically improves the chances. The strength of this method is that you are asking them to write their phone number down as they are writing down their email and, in doing so; you have built a very powerful compliance momentum.By asking for her email, you have given her a very small attraction test and if you have any value built at all, she will comply with you. It's very low risk and most people give out an email address without thinking about it. Asking for the phone number is much more personal, but by asking for it while they are writing down their email, your chances of success will skyrocket. Try it and you will realise how powerful this is!
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