When something or someone is important in your life, it's difficult to be patient. With your ex girlfriend, being patient is nearly impossible. You are filled with worry and fear. You worry that another guy is going to get her attention. You worry that she might forget that you still love her. You worry that her friends or family are going to completely turn her against you. You are fearful that you will never get back together with her and that she is gone for good. Your relationship is important to you and you fear the loss of that love that you might never feel from her again.
There's no sense in pretending that you're doing well. There's no sense in lying to yourself that you're not worried. All of these emotions weigh heavy on your mind as you worry about your relationship. You grow suspicious and angry about the situation that you're in. Did some other guy turn her away from you? Is there someone else that is filling her head with lies? All of these emotions are making you desperate for an answer and being desperate can cause you to make mistakes when trying to get the woman that you love back.
A common reaction to this fear and all these emotions is to come up with a plan or scheme to get our ex back that goes something like this. We first try to apologize to our ex. We might make a list of things that we did wrong or things that we didn't do when we were in the relationship. We promise to do everything right. We tell our ex that we're sorry and that everything will be fine if they will only give us a second chance. We can change and we might even show our ex the things that we have begun to change.
When that doesn't work, you may have tried some variations of this technique. You tried being super nice to her or you bought her gifts. You may have even told her that you had bought these gifts before you broke up but you wanted her to have these things. You may have even begged or cried and pleaded with her to have mercy upon your soul and asked her to give you another chance. You told her that you loved her and that she was the most important person in your life.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
A real plan to get your girlfriend back should be based upon female psychology and what a woman needs to feel in order to overcome the biggest hurdle that confronts you right now which is the fact that she broke up with you. She has told all of her friends and family that she is done with you. That is going to be a big obstacle to overcome so you're going to have to speak to her emotions. Her decision is going to have to be an emotional one. She is going to have to want you more than she might be embarrassed to tell everyone that she is getting back together with you.
Understanding your girlfriend's emotions and basing your actions upon making her feel the emotions necessary for her to fall in love with you again is the route that you should take. While this might sound simple or easy, it's your emotional state that is getting in your way. You actually care too much at the moment. You are so fearful of losing her for good that you aren't being yourself. If you could step back and not care so much then you would realize that getting her back isn't really all that difficult. If you can, try not to care so much. Try not to worry so much and you will begin to understand your ex-girlfriend and how she is feeling about you right now.
There's no sense in pretending that you're doing well. There's no sense in lying to yourself that you're not worried. All of these emotions weigh heavy on your mind as you worry about your relationship. You grow suspicious and angry about the situation that you're in. Did some other guy turn her away from you? Is there someone else that is filling her head with lies? All of these emotions are making you desperate for an answer and being desperate can cause you to make mistakes when trying to get the woman that you love back.
A common reaction to this fear and all these emotions is to come up with a plan or scheme to get our ex back that goes something like this. We first try to apologize to our ex. We might make a list of things that we did wrong or things that we didn't do when we were in the relationship. We promise to do everything right. We tell our ex that we're sorry and that everything will be fine if they will only give us a second chance. We can change and we might even show our ex the things that we have begun to change.
When that doesn't work, you may have tried some variations of this technique. You tried being super nice to her or you bought her gifts. You may have even told her that you had bought these gifts before you broke up but you wanted her to have these things. You may have even begged or cried and pleaded with her to have mercy upon your soul and asked her to give you another chance. You told her that you loved her and that she was the most important person in your life.
In case you didn't know already, all of these methods will fail you. No matter how much your frantic mind might want to convince you that these are the right things to do, it's lying to you. Your mind will try to tell you all sorts of things to get you to just act and do the wrong things. It is filled with fear right now. Fear will cause you to do anything right about now, even if it's wrong. You should be kicking back right now coming up with a real plan to get your girlfriend back if you're serious.
A real plan to get your girlfriend back should be based upon female psychology and what a woman needs to feel in order to overcome the biggest hurdle that confronts you right now which is the fact that she broke up with you. She has told all of her friends and family that she is done with you. That is going to be a big obstacle to overcome so you're going to have to speak to her emotions. Her decision is going to have to be an emotional one. She is going to have to want you more than she might be embarrassed to tell everyone that she is getting back together with you.
Understanding your girlfriend's emotions and basing your actions upon making her feel the emotions necessary for her to fall in love with you again is the route that you should take. While this might sound simple or easy, it's your emotional state that is getting in your way. You actually care too much at the moment. You are so fearful of losing her for good that you aren't being yourself. If you could step back and not care so much then you would realize that getting her back isn't really all that difficult. If you can, try not to care so much. Try not to worry so much and you will begin to understand your ex-girlfriend and how she is feeling about you right now.
About the Author:
Click here to learn more about female psychology. Discover how you can make her fall in love with you again before it's too late.
No comments:
Post a Comment