Attracting the man of your dreams or any man, for that matter, probably isn't as difficult as you are making it out to be. Once you know a few secrets about what men find attractive and how men think, you can leverage this covert intelligence to attract and connect with any man. No matter what you look like, how much you believe that he's out of your league or even if he already has a girlfriend, you can attract and connect with any many you choose once you understand how men think and process attraction.
The differences between men and women are stark. Trying methods or treating a man in the same manner in which you wish to be treated simply isn't going to work. While we all want to be treated well and to have someone at least act as if they're interested in us, you are hoping that you become more than just a friend to him, right? You want him to be attracted to you. You want to be the only woman that he finds attractive. You want a man devoted to you and maybe even to fall in love with you. This is the kind of attraction that you are hoping for.
As you know already, men are primarily attracted to things visually. We could use cars as an example, among other things. A man will like a car because of how it makes him feel visually before he sits in it or takes it for a test drive. A man is also attracted to a woman visually initially and this will play a role throughout the courtship process as he becomes connected to you. Of course, eventually, that visual stimulation wears off and his decision about who he is attracted to takes other factors into consideration such as personality, character and temperament. Initially, you need to attract him visually before you can show him how wonderful you are. If you are worried now because you're not perfect or you feel that there is nothing visually attractive about you then just relax. All that is required is at least one single visual trigger for him to take notice of you and then the fun begins.
It could be that you have nice hair or beautiful eyes or a pleasant shape that is appealing to a man's eyes. To improve your odds of winning, you can accentuate your best features and not worry about the features that might not be so attractive. We all have things that we like about ourselves as well as thing that we would rather hide, if possible. By accentuating just a few of your positive features you may hit a nerve that will allow him to see only that one feature and that is your foot in the door.
Next, for a man, flirting is the only way that you're going to be able to let him know that you're interested in him without coming right out and saying the words. You might feel silly flirting or you might think that it doesn't work or that you're transparent but the truth is that it does work. Men love to be flirted with. In our present day, very few women openly flirt so if you have the courage to flirt with him, there will be no doubt about how you feel about him and you won't have to say a word.
Yes, we are talking about flirting just as you have seen it in the movies. Toss your hair back a few times, run your fingers through your hair, bite your finger as you laugh at his jokes and wink at him when he's being naughty. Lean in good and close when you're telling him a secret and touch him when you're talking to him to solidify that connection that you're building with him. Not too many women dare to actually flirt these days. They think that it is below them or somehow old fashioned but it works and it works well.
Last but not least, asking deep questions and showing that you have a sincere interest in him is the pathway to his heart. While he might know a lot of people and have many friends, few of them probably really know him. Very few people in his life probably care enough about him to ask about his dreams and goals in life. Probing questions that build off of his answers can lead him to feel a deep connection with you. Answers to questions that most people wouldn't dare to ask will make him feel as if he has known you for a long time.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
You see, attracting the man of your dreams doesn't have to be complicated or full of tricks and schemes. You can attract a guy using his instinctual attraction to things that he sees and then draw him closer using these bonding techniques. Once a man feels that kind of connection, it doesn't matter what you look like, how much money you make or even what skeletons you have hiding in your closet. He will feel drawn to you and want to spend more time with you because you make him feel important and he is attracted to you. This is basic male psychology and how you can use attraction to get any man to pay attention to you.
The differences between men and women are stark. Trying methods or treating a man in the same manner in which you wish to be treated simply isn't going to work. While we all want to be treated well and to have someone at least act as if they're interested in us, you are hoping that you become more than just a friend to him, right? You want him to be attracted to you. You want to be the only woman that he finds attractive. You want a man devoted to you and maybe even to fall in love with you. This is the kind of attraction that you are hoping for.
As you know already, men are primarily attracted to things visually. We could use cars as an example, among other things. A man will like a car because of how it makes him feel visually before he sits in it or takes it for a test drive. A man is also attracted to a woman visually initially and this will play a role throughout the courtship process as he becomes connected to you. Of course, eventually, that visual stimulation wears off and his decision about who he is attracted to takes other factors into consideration such as personality, character and temperament. Initially, you need to attract him visually before you can show him how wonderful you are. If you are worried now because you're not perfect or you feel that there is nothing visually attractive about you then just relax. All that is required is at least one single visual trigger for him to take notice of you and then the fun begins.
It could be that you have nice hair or beautiful eyes or a pleasant shape that is appealing to a man's eyes. To improve your odds of winning, you can accentuate your best features and not worry about the features that might not be so attractive. We all have things that we like about ourselves as well as thing that we would rather hide, if possible. By accentuating just a few of your positive features you may hit a nerve that will allow him to see only that one feature and that is your foot in the door.
Next, for a man, flirting is the only way that you're going to be able to let him know that you're interested in him without coming right out and saying the words. You might feel silly flirting or you might think that it doesn't work or that you're transparent but the truth is that it does work. Men love to be flirted with. In our present day, very few women openly flirt so if you have the courage to flirt with him, there will be no doubt about how you feel about him and you won't have to say a word.
Yes, we are talking about flirting just as you have seen it in the movies. Toss your hair back a few times, run your fingers through your hair, bite your finger as you laugh at his jokes and wink at him when he's being naughty. Lean in good and close when you're telling him a secret and touch him when you're talking to him to solidify that connection that you're building with him. Not too many women dare to actually flirt these days. They think that it is below them or somehow old fashioned but it works and it works well.
Last but not least, asking deep questions and showing that you have a sincere interest in him is the pathway to his heart. While he might know a lot of people and have many friends, few of them probably really know him. Very few people in his life probably care enough about him to ask about his dreams and goals in life. Probing questions that build off of his answers can lead him to feel a deep connection with you. Answers to questions that most people wouldn't dare to ask will make him feel as if he has known you for a long time.
Most people ask the same boring questions when they meet someone new. They ask what you do for a living, whether or not you like your job and where you're from. The deepest most people probe when they're talking to someone they're interested in is to ask how they became interested in their current career. Asking questions that build off of the answers that he gives you will allow you to dig down into his life and his feelings. Don't be shy. Ask him if he ever thought that he would be where he is now when he was ten or twelve. This is a way of indirectly asking him what his childhood dream was. Before you know it he is sharing his innermost secrets from his life with you. You will begin to understand who he is as a person. As he shares these secrets he will automatically become connected to you on a very deep level.
You see, attracting the man of your dreams doesn't have to be complicated or full of tricks and schemes. You can attract a guy using his instinctual attraction to things that he sees and then draw him closer using these bonding techniques. Once a man feels that kind of connection, it doesn't matter what you look like, how much money you make or even what skeletons you have hiding in your closet. He will feel drawn to you and want to spend more time with you because you make him feel important and he is attracted to you. This is basic male psychology and how you can use attraction to get any man to pay attention to you.
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